What women think men want from them often causes women to have resentment and anger towards men, leaving women to feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm, romantic partnership. What men think women want from them often causes them much of the same feelings and frustration.
If only we would realize that both men and women are human beings who pretty much want the same thing. But, you don’t have to take my word for it since I’ve asked many men and women who are actively involved in personal growth and development what they want from a partner to build a great relationship. You will find their answers to be unexpected.
Discover what men said they want from women as contrasted with what women think men want.
Good Looks
Women’s looks have become increasingly important to men over the years. The trait has jumped up seven spots, from №15 in 1956. (Looks did not make the top 10 list of what women want in a husband, but it has become more important to them over time too — jumping from №18 to №12). Perhaps because modern marriages are more likely based on love and attraction rather than practicalities (like wealth or status), physical attractiveness is more desirable.
Wait for Sex
Don’t jump into bed on your first date. Sex can effectively ruin what could otherwise be a beautiful relationship. Both of you may end up having very little in common other than sex. So wait a while before you seal the deal.
Desire for Home and Children
A woman’s desire for home and children has become less attractive to men over time. In 1939, men ranked it at №6. As women have increasingly achieved similar levels of education and career status, men may have begun to perceive them as more equal partners. How to divide the labor of home and work isn’t as obvious as it was to their grandparents’ generation.
Men want a Woman with a Good Personality
Men want a woman with a good personality because they know when they introduce you to their friends and family they will know that you will all get along and you will always say the right thing. It would be great if you could make him laugh, you don’t have to tell him a joke to make him laugh you just need to be yourself and let some of your daftness out.
He will laugh at your antics and this will bring you closer together because he will know you are relaxed in his company. To have a nice caring personality is especially endearing to a man. He will know that no matter what happens you will take care of the people around you. He will love your beautiful nature and he will be proud of you
No-Nonsense
A man wants a woman he can respect. If he knows he can’t get away with anything, he’s likely not to go down that path. Also, don’t date a guy who is seeing other women, married or abusive — they are just not worth it.
Men want Harmony
Men want harmony because there is no greater gift in life than peace of mind. If you can create peace of mind you have created a sanctuary for you both to live in. Imagine how fantastic it would be to come home and not have any worries. A home where calmness and peace are at its very heart. Your man will love this harmonious home.
He will feel that it is a home where he can be himself. A home where you can shut yourselves away from the outside world for a few hours and enjoy each other’s company. There wouldn’t be any arguments because everything is as it should be. We can all have this dream home life. We all deserve to live the dream.
